Motyv

Your 7-Step Digital Course
To Break Free From Lust
& Pornography

You’ve worked hard—but you’ve been fighting without a guide, without a map, without real tools, and have lacked the money and time for real help. That ends today.

Stop Trying To Stop

Hey brother, white-knuckling your way through this hasn’t worked—not because you’re weak, but because “trying to stop” is the wrong strategy. When all your focus goes into not doing the thing, you actually strengthen the thing. Willpower was never designed to carry this alone. You don’t need more discipline—you need understanding. You need to know your pain, interrupt your patterns, dismantle your pride, and anchor your purpose.

Trying to stop keeps the whole battle trapped in your head—negotiating, bargaining, promising tomorrow will be different, while nothing inside actually changes. That’s why you’re here. Liberate exists so you never fight this alone again. You don’t need to try more. You need tools, clarity, brotherhood, and truth. When you stop trying to stop and start understanding yourself, that’s when the chains finally fall off. That’s where real liberation begins.

What Liberate
Offers

When a man truly wants to recover, therapy can take months—not because he’s slow, but because of how much education he actually needs on top of the work. Hour by hour, week by week, the process can feel slow, expensive, and frustrating… especially when the relapses keep stacking up. Therapy works, but it’s often a lot slower than it has to be.

That’s why we built Liberate—an all-in-one digital course with step-by-step guidance, visual frameworks, and easy-to-watch videos taught by a therapist. It provides you with the tools, clarity, and education you need at a fraction of the cost. It saves time. It accelerates real transformation. And it gives you knowledge you didn’t know you were missing.

A Proven Path

Work through a 7-module video course covering the 4 P’s of Recovery: Pain, Porn, Pride, and Purpose.

Put in The Work

Each lesson offers direct, honest guidance to help you understand your habits and rebuild your life.

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Tools & Frameworks

Providing hands-on resources like downloadable workbooks, journal prompts, and practical assignments to reinforce each.

Take Action

With secure, on-demand access, men can learn, reflect, and grow at their own pace.

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Real Conversations

Every course is therapy-led and grounded in authentic, faith-based guidance that speaks directly and honestly to men’s real struggles.

Therapist-Led

Utilizing therapeutic insight, participants find lasting freedom and renewed purpose rooted in truth.

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Let's Start With A Conversation

If you’re hesitant to buy the program, or if you’re a parent, leader, or spouse wanting to know more, don’t hesitate to schedule a consultation with me, Shayden. You’re not just buying a program, you’re buying trust. I’m glad to help you in any way to build that trust.

Real Stories.
Real Transformation.

Discover how therapy-led guidance has helped others overcome porn addiction and reclaim their lives.

In my fifteen years as a church leader working with young adults, I’ve seen countless individuals struggle with pornography and the shame, isolation, and despair that follow. Shayden Bertagnolli’s Liberate program is one of the most effective and inspired...
- Robert Ferrell DDS, MD
Former Mission President
When I first began talking to Shayden I had just been sent home from my mission to start a service mission at home. I felt so lost and helpless, I fell back into habits and into my addiction to pornography. Speaking with Shayden he introduced me to this...
- Teylon
As someone who works in the mental health and performance world, I’m drawn to people who are both relatable and effective, and that is exactly who Shayden is. He is compassionate without the fluff and knows how to connect in ways that truly resonate.
- Braden J. Brown, Ph.D.
LMFT Associate AD - Mental Health, BYU Athletics
Going through this program completely changed my perspective. It opened my heart and helped me realize that pornography addiction is not only a physical addiction but also affects people in the mental, emotional, and spiritual aspects of their lives as well.
- Reagan
I was encouraged to go talk with Shayden for many months, and I continued to put it off. I am grateful that I took the opportunity to see him. Meeting with Shayden and participating in the Liberate program have changed my outlook on life and...
- Trevor R.
To me, the Liberate course is so important because it is distinct from the other ways that I, as a young man, have been trying to escape from pornography addiction. I’ve tried multiple different avenues to fight my addiction, like many different apps or...
- Saphrony W.
I’ve known Shayden for a long time and I can say with confidence that I trust him. He is the real deal. He knows his stuff and has studied and practiced his therapeutic approach with discipline and care in ways that most do not. I have seen first hand his care for the...
- Blake Altom
MA LMFT
Shayden is the most competent, qualified, and passionate therapist I know when it comes to helping people overcome porn addiction. His ability to help his clients balance both self-compassion and grit just hits perfectly. This is exactly what men need to...
- Jakob Jensen, PhD.
MS LFMT President, North Carolina Association for Marriage and Family Therapy

— Our Process

Motyv's Approach

Motyv offers a structured, step-by-step program designed to help you overcome addiction and transform your life. Begin with an open consultation, then access therapy-led video lessons and a practical workbook. Follow the program at your own pace to address the root causes of your struggles and build a life free from porn and compulsive behaviors.

Get Started Now

Take charge of your life today. Sign up and start your journey to lasting freedom and recovery.

Schedule a Free Consultation
Start with a free, confidential consultation if more clarification is needed. Discuss if you think the intensity of Liberate matches the intensity of your struggle. Gain clarity on how it could fit for you.
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Join Liberate
Sign up for less than a tenth of what normal therapy costs. At $299 a year, you gain immediate access to the full program. Begin your work with professional guidance immediately and start feeling liberated.
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Log In and Begin
Access therapy-led video lessons and the workbook to follow a structured, step-by-step recovery path. Learn to identify triggers, build healthy habits, and strengthen accountability.
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Liberate Your Life
Heal underlying issues driving addiction and reclaim control over your life. Build lasting freedom from porn and compulsive behaviors with clarity, purpose, and support.
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Let's Get Real

Explore honest conversations that address the real challenges men face. Inside the Motyv studio, we're focused on providing practical insights on faith, therapy, and the journey to lasting freedom. Delivered with clarity, authenticity, and no fluff.

Motyv's Focus & Direction

Escaping Unhelpful Patterns

Understanding Men's Actions

— Stay Motivated

Articles & Insights

Explore articles and expert insights designed to support men on their journey toward personal growth and recovery. From overcoming addiction to building healthy habits and strengthening purpose, Motyv is here to help.